My biggest pet peeve about social media is bad advice. People who are totally unqualified LOVE to give advice about things they know nothing about. Whenever I'm on the verge of commenting on a post with a piece of advice, I always stop myself and ask, "Is this something I really know enough about to advise people on?" I've been thinking about this a lot recently when it comes to how Mamas pick their Doulas. Being part of this incredible Birth World, I often come across the qu

Control during birth is one of the most sensitive topics. Ranging from Hypnobirthing theories on letting go, to people who think the idea of control is blasphemous and impossible, because birth is in G-d’s hands. If I may, I’d like to bring your attention to a happy medium: I find that while labor is something we can’t plan meticulously, we can maintain our control to some extent. Maintaining that control, whatever little amount we have, is actually vital to our success as mo